What You Should Know
With improvements in medicine, public health, science and technology, today’s elders live longer, healthier
lives than previous generations. Still, at some point most seniors depend on others for help with daily
activities. Some receive this help from family members or service providers who visit them at home; others
move to a relative’s house or a residential care facility.
The transition from self-sufficiency to dependence is the most difficult issue older adults face. Listen
to your loved one’s wishes for their own future. Unless those decisions become harmful, do your best to
accommodate them. Your elder’s quality of life will depend on making appropriate and timely adjustments as
abilities decline.
Caring for an elder can be one of the most significant jobs you will ever undertake — an opportunity to
enrich your relationship with your loved one. With preparation and an understanding of what is involved, you,
your family and your loved one can make the most of your remaining time together.
You Are Not Alone
If you already care for an elder or expect to do so in the future, you are not alone. The number of individuals
who care for an elder has risen dramatically as life expectancy has increased. In fact, many adults care for a
senior longer than they do for their own children. The following individuals and groups are available to provide
you support and advice.
- A family physician can explain your elder’s medical needs and provide referrals.
- Friends and neighbors who have faced similar circumstances and caregiver support groups can help
you learn from their experiences.
- A trusted clergy member may offer counseling or referrals to ministries for seniors.
- A professional geriatric care manager can explain in-home and other support services, as well as
organize care from various providers.
- Employee assistance programs may offer information on elder housing and care.
- Local government and social service agencies may offer information, education and referrals.
Plan Ahead
Begin making elder care decisions early, while your loved one is healthy and can share wishes and concerns.
Not only will everyone feel better planning for the future when things are going well, but you will be better
prepared for a transition when the time comes.
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